on daycare, childcare, and being a working parent
The notion that people “let someone else” raise their kids because they send them to daycare is ludicrous.
The notion that people “let someone else” raise their kids because they send them to daycare is ludicrous.
Time really does seem to go faster as we get older.
Or maybe we just appreciate the moments more.
When I went back to work in September, five months ahead of schedule, I had one major sticking point upon which I struggled: how the fresh heck was I going to get it all done? The all, of course, being almost precisely what I talked about in my last blog: the literal everything of mom… Continue reading why i’m paying for everything i can
In reflecting, I’ve come to realize that perhaps the reason my return to work has felt so hard has been that I set too high a standard for myself.
The mom I thought I would be wouldn’t love her baby any more or any less. She wouldn’t feel less fulfilled or like a stranger to herself. She wouldn’t be happier. Neither version is a failure.