I woke up this morning feeling pretty pleased with myself.
Two big suitcases sat jam-packed with my stuff against the wall, a third set on top of a rubbermaid container (mainly to hold said rubbermaid container closed), waiting to be filled. In a little under two hours last night, I managed to pack the clothes I
like the most need for my first few weeks in the new place. How efficient am I? I thought smugly, and then I looked into my closet.
More clothes. Dresses, jackets, shirts, sweaters, shoes, pants, jeans, skirts… There is an entire wardrobe packed in my suitcases and another full wardrobe hanging in my closet. My bureau drawers aren’t empty either. In spite of having not one but four white button-front shirts, last week I looked at one and thought how much I wanted to buy it. I didn’t, and was reminded why last night. Given, some of the clothes hanging don’t fit quite right but some were expensive items, and you never know when you might put on five or forty pounds, right?
More. It consumes our lives, day in and day out. We want more money, bigger houses, faster cars, better wardrobes, more vacation time. Some of us even lose sleep over it – I know I do. Want keeps me awake, need rarely does. Every now and again, want and need overlap for me. Going back to school is a great example of that. I could have done all of the schoolwork in the upcoming year in the time I spent worrying. All those hours didn’t change the outcome though. They don’t make tuition less and as far as I can see, worrying isn’t going to make leaving any easier.
Wanting more this and more that has really only given me more stress, more headaches and less happiness. Worrying about things I can’t have or can’t change has only dulled my own life and taken away from all of the wonderful things I do have. What if, just for one day, I could swap wanting more with being happy with enough. I have enough.
I have a roof over my head when thousands of others are freezing in the street. I have food in my cupboards, and electricity keeping my fridge running. I have an amazing support system of family and friends. I have a beautiful, bright and loving little boy and I have our health. New jeans or a shiny car won’t make any of that better or worse.
When it’s all stripped away, I really have it all – I have more than enough.